THE DAILY GROOVE ~ by Scott Noelle www.enjoyparenting.com/
:: "I Want It NOW!" ::The *inner* process of creating requires two things:
asking and receiving. (See: Get in a Receiving Mode )
People often fail to get in a receiving mode because of it's paradoxical nature. To receive what you want, you must be free *not* to have it. The longer you're willing to wait, the sooner it will come.
If your child is complaining about not having whats/he wants *right now*, s/he's stuck in the asking mode. Ironically, parents often exacerbate the problem by saying or thinking essentially the same thing: "I want the complaining to stop NOW!"
To help your child get in a receiving mode, *model* it: get in your own receiving mode *about* your child's receiving mode! :-) How? Simply imagine your child happily anticipating the fulfillment of his or her desire.
As you deliberately enjoy that vision (even if your child is still complaining), you *become* the change you wish to see.
And when you demonstrate the receiving mode often, your child will eventually fall into it with you --naturally and willingly.
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People often fail to get in a receiving mode because of it's paradoxical nature. To receive what you want, you must be free *not* to have it. The longer you're willing to wait, the sooner it will come.
If your child is complaining about not having whats/he wants *right now*, s/he's stuck in the asking mode. Ironically, parents often exacerbate the problem by saying or thinking essentially the same thing: "I want the complaining to stop NOW!"
To help your child get in a receiving mode, *model* it: get in your own receiving mode *about* your child's receiving mode! :-) How? Simply imagine your child happily anticipating the fulfillment of his or her desire.
As you deliberately enjoy that vision (even if your child is still complaining), you *become* the change you wish to see.
And when you demonstrate the receiving mode often, your child will eventually fall into it with you --naturally and willingly.
http://dailygroove.net/i-want-
Facebook Twitter Take the next step...Join the PATH Program:http://www.enjoyparenting.com/
(Please include this paragraph and everything above.) Copyright (c) 2010 by Scott Noelle
______________________________
"Inspiration & Coaching for Progressive Parents" http://www.ScottNoelle.com
http://www.EnjoyParenting.com PO Box 19901 Portland, OR 97280 USA
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